In this Episode, Bruce and Heather unpack and discuss the word MIRROR. What are the first thoughts/emotions when we think about looking in the MIRROR?Frightening, difficult? Opportunity, evaluation? What is it reflecting? Do we like what we see, not just physically but also, who we see?Do we compare? Do we say WOW I’m unique? HowContinue reading “Unpacking MIRROR”
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Unpacking CARELESS and CARE LESS
https://anchor.fm/canihaveawordwithyou/episodes/Unpacking-CARELESS-versus-CARE-LESS-e22u1pf https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/can-i-have-a-word-with-you/id1628668707?i=1000610503544 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7jIJLseq8752jJVaqE7OAW?si=bnBtVlfhR4yAy4lnoCvR7g While we don’t ever want to be CARELESS, are there times when we should CARE LESS about certain things? What others think about us? Being too focused on the outcome? Instead focusing on the process, the impact, where we are right now with the relationship, conversation, and our growth? In this EpisodeContinue reading “Unpacking CARELESS and CARE LESS”
Unpacking PRESSURE
UNPACKING PRESSURE:Put there we get to respondReally is that really trueEveryone has a perspectiveSeen as a performance testSubtle ways to step into itUntie situation & outcomeRelax and seek your CALMEnvision the tire w/o air Psalm 46:10 Be still and know that I am God.Learn more about Bruce Pulver, book a speaking engagement or order AboveContinue reading “Unpacking PRESSURE”
If you can’t hide it-decorate it!
OK-this is going to be short, sweet and to the point because I have a haircut in 45 minutes. If you are new to my blog, that is a statement of celebration because I have post-leukemic hair and I am very grateful that I have hairs to cut! It’s funny that I am headed toContinue reading “If you can’t hide it-decorate it!”
Picture Perfect
In an attempt to “live life on life’s terms”, I decided that part of the process should include sorting through the boxes of books and memorabilia that I have been storing in my parent’s basement…for 4 years. If I am going to keep it, I need to keep it at my own house. If itContinue reading “Picture Perfect”
Happy Birthday
Yesterday was my birthday. I brilliantly scheduled a doctor appointment for first thing in the morning. In hindsight, It might have been better to do this on a less monumental day. First of all, as I was walking in, it dawned on me that I they were going to check my weight. Nothing like aContinue reading “Happy Birthday”
Wonder Woman and the “Old Normal”
When I was diagnosed with Leukemia we were forced to adjust to a “new normal.” We have been working on that for almost 4 months. We are getting pretty good at living this new normal. However, in about a month, when i am done with Chemo and hopefully done with hospital stays, we will againContinue reading “Wonder Woman and the “Old Normal””
What am I doing wrong?
Ok…this is a sad story. It’s about me, but since it isn’t something I remember saying, I can tell you as if it were someone else and tell you that it breaks my heart that someone would think this. Last time I was in for chemo I was talking with the nurse that was withContinue reading “What am I doing wrong?”
Shallow Hal
I am having a hard time sleeping lately. Last night I was awake from 12-4 am. The other night Blake was sleeping in Bennett’s room ( due to my Neutropenic state…germs) so when i couldn’t sleep I turned on the TV. Shallow Hal was on. It’s a pretty good story-line about a man who getsContinue reading “Shallow Hal”
Fashion statement
“PRETTY PICC-POCKETS” Think my mom and i need to patent these. I realized that my Picc line, (where they take my blood, and give me blood, antibiotics and chemo without having to use an IV) might freak people out now that I occasionally go out in public. SO-we have fashioned a cover forContinue reading “Fashion statement”